BDSM encompasses various terms such as dominant, submissive, sadism, masochism, and roleplay. However, there’s a term that, despite its common practice, remains less known. This term refers to a rigger, someone who derives pleasure from tying up others.
If you’re interested in exploring the role of a rigger, it’s important to understand that engaging in bondage requires proper knowledge and technique. Incorrectly executed bondage can result in harm or injury to your partner, which may be temporary or even permanent. Consequently, individuals involved in the rigger kink must undergo thorough training to ensure the utmost safety during play. The mastery of certain rope techniques may take years, emphasizing the need for extensive training before attempting bondage with a partner.
If you desire more information on the role of a rigger and how to incorporate this specific form of bondage into your BDSM play, continue reading.
What Is A Rigger BDSM?
Rope bondage, often referred to as Shibari, is an artistic and arousing style of Japanese bondage that involves intricate knots and tying techniques. A person who has mastered the art of rope tying and the complexities of knots is known as a “Rigger.” In the realm of bondage play, the rigger takes on the role of the “model or assistant,” commonly referred to as a rope bunny, who enjoys being tied up.
While a rigger may have a rope model or assistant for their bondage play, it is not always necessary, especially when they are learning new skills. Many riggers practice tying knots on themselves, a common approach in honing their techniques.
The allure of rope bondage encompasses various aspects of the kink. For some, it involves engaging in edge play, exploring consensual pain, or indulging in BDSM kinks. Alternatively, Shibari is also favored by BDSM couples due to the high level of trust and intimacy it fosters between the rope artist (rigger) and the rope bunny.
Why Do Riggers Enjoy Rope Bondage?
Rigger BDSM is commonly associated with sexual play, where rope bondage serves as a source of arousal. In these instances, the act of tying up becomes the focal point without direct genital stimulation. Additionally, rigger BDSM can also serve as a form of foreplay. Within the realm of BDSM, rigging can be a component of setting up a scene that may involve suspension, flogging, spanking, or other forms of sexual contact.
It’s important to note that while BDSM itself is a sexual practice, rope bondage doesn’t always have a sexual context. Some bondage riggers view it as a form of performance art. As a hobby, these riggers may tie a bondage model using ropes in intricate configurations. The process of tying itself can be considered an art form, and the rope top may capture photographs of their creations or find aesthetic value in the act of tying their partner.
Individuals who enjoy being the rope bottom, the person being restrained, often express that it helps them relax and enter a mental state known as sub-space. In this state, they fully surrender themselves to the sensations in their body, experiencing a euphoric rush rather than dissociation. The submissive is entirely present, relaxed, and open to giving and receiving pleasure.
What Does A Rigger Do In BDSM?
Within the realm of BDSM, a Rigger assumes the role of someone who derives pleasure from tying others up using the rope. Riggers display diverse styles and preferences in their practice.
Some specialize in bondage, employing intricate rope patterns and knots to completely restrict the movement of the Rope Bottom. The partner may be positioned in uncomfortable poses, even as part of predicament play where the Rope Bottom must choose between two challenging options.
Others focus on the sexual aspect, reserving their tying skills for the bedroom during sexual play. In this context, the partner is restrained in ways that enhance sexual arousal. It can be as simple as binding their wrists together with a double column tie and attaching the other end of the rope to the bedhead. Alternatively, it may involve elaborate ties designed to hold the legs apart for teasing purposes.
There are also Riggers who derive satisfaction purely from the aesthetic aspects of rigging and rope bondage. For them, it is an artistic hobby that may not necessarily have a sexual component. These individuals may engage in suspension rigging, where the Rope Bottom is elevated above the ground, suspended by rope attached to long bamboo poles or wooden rings suspended from the ceiling.
Why Choose To Become A Rigger?
There are numerous compelling reasons to pursue the role of a Rigger. The dynamic interplay between a Rigger and a bunny holds a unique allure. The deep level of trust required in this Dominant/submissive relationship contributes to a heightened sense of intimacy, making it a primary motivation from my perspective.
Being a Rigger is an exercise in self-control. The dedicated time and patience necessary to refine your skills elevate it beyond a passing interest.
Furthermore, there is a certain satisfaction in creating a beautifully crafted end product. The knowledge that you are the one transforming ordinary lengths of rope into a captivating work of art can serve as a highly enticing reason to embark on the path of becoming a Rigger.
How Do You Know If You Have A Rigger Kink?
If you have never explored the role of a Rigger in the context of bed or BDSM, it may initially seem unfamiliar to you. However, it’s possible that you have a latent interest or inclination towards being a Rigger artist or a Rigger bunny. There are certain characteristics or preferences that can help you identify if you possess a Rigger kink.
- During intimate moments with your partner, you often find yourself using your hands to bind them.
- You tend to favor sexual positions that involve limited or restrained movement.
- When seeking stimulation from videos, you are drawn to content featuring ropes and bound partners.
- The idea of experiencing submission through physical restraint has always intrigued you.
- You feel comfortable and willing to place your trust in someone to tie you up.
- You have a genuine interest in acquiring a new skill set.
If any of these aspects resonate with you, it’s possible that you have a Rigger kink. Rather than suppressing this sexual desire, consider exploring and embracing your fantasies by practicing the role of a Rigger in the bedroom.
How To Become A Rigger?
If you’re interested in becoming a Rigger, there are specific guidelines you should follow. Before tying up an actual person, it’s essential to practice and learn the right knots and designs on your own. Once you have gained proficiency, you can involve another person. The following steps can help you embark on your journey as a Rigger:
1. Learn BDSM Rigging from a Professional
It is crucial to learn from an experienced practitioner who can guide you in practicing tying patterns, understanding anatomy, and prioritizing safety.
2. Explore Rigger Courses Online
While in-person instruction and experience are invaluable, online courses can offer additional knowledge and expand your educational resources.
3. Engage with the Local Rope Bondage Community
Connecting with a community of like-minded individuals can provide valuable learning opportunities. By sharing experiences, concerns, questions, ideas, and philosophies, you can grow as a Rigger and potentially connect with potential partners interested in bondage.
4. Invest in Quality Bondage Rope
Different ropes possess various properties such as tooth, texture, and thickness. It’s important to experiment with different styles, sizes, and materials (such as cotton, silk, nylon, or hemp) to find what suits your preferences. Consider using different colors for different lovers or specific bondage practices.
5. Choose Scenarios
Select scenarios for play, photography, or arousal based on your BDSM desires. Ensure that the way you restrain your rope bunny aligns with the chosen scenario, and discuss any boundaries with your partner before beginning.
6. Choose Your Role
While the conventional understanding may associate the Rigger with dominance, this isn’t always the case. Many riggers prefer being the submissive, following instructions to tie up their dominant or themselves. Clarify the roles each of you will be playing before starting.
7. Establish a Safeword
Safewords are essential in BDSM play, providing a clear way for your rope bunny to communicate discomfort or pain without confusion. Choose a word that doesn’t align with your scenario, ensuring effective communication and safety.
8. Consent is Key
Consent is vital in all kinky activities, including rigging. Wait for willing participants who are genuinely interested and enthusiastic about rope bondage, instead of trying to persuade or convince someone who is uncertain.
9. Prioritize Safety
Before engaging in bondage, ensure that you and your partner are on the same page and equipped with high-quality, body-safe rope from reputable manufacturers. Communicate at every stage, monitor your partner for circulation and airflow, never leave a restrained person unattended, and keep a cutting implement nearby for quick release if needed.
10. Aftercare
After the bondage experience, both physical and emotional aftercare is essential, particularly in a sexual context. It should be a mutual responsibility, offering comfort, love, reassurance, and attending to any physical needs or bruises.
11. Maintain Open Communication
Ongoing communication between you and your partner(s) regarding BDSM is crucial. Discuss desires, boundaries, and new exploration opportunities in advance, and ensure that communication remains open during BDSM experiences to maintain alignment and consent.
Pros And Cons Of Being A Rigger
Pros of Being a Rigger
- The ability to create visually captivating and aesthetically pleasing finished bondage designs.
- Opportunity to learn a new skill that extends beyond the realm of BDSM, offering potential applications in various contexts.
- Facilitating a deep and intimate connection with a partner through the trust and vulnerability involved in rope bondage.
Cons of Being a Rigger
- The necessity for precision and accuracy in tying knots and executing bondage techniques, as any mistakes could potentially lead to discomfort or harm for the bunny.
- Requires a significant amount of practice and dedication to master the art of rigging, as proficiency is crucial for ensuring the safety and well-being of the participants.
- The risk of causing serious injury to the rope bunny if proper precautions, communication, and safety measures are not strictly observed.
Rigger In BDSM FAQs
Is Rigging Inherently Dangerous?
Yes, rigging can be dangerous. Safety is a crucial aspect of BDSM, particularly when engaging in activities such as Edge Play. It is vital to prioritize safety to ensure the well-being of all participants involved.
Where Should I Begin My Education As A Rigger?
A great starting point for education is learning the single-column tie. This fundamental knot is easy to grasp and serves as the foundation for many other ties. Once you have mastered the single column, you can explore using rope in the bedroom or dungeon.
Can I Use Any Type Of Rope For Rigging?
Not all ropes are suitable for rigging. Factors such as safety and comfort should be considered when selecting the appropriate rope. There are valuable resources available to guide you in finding the right type of rope for your specific purpose.
Is A Rigger Considered A Top In BDSM?
In the realm of BDSM, the term “Top” generally refers to the person who is actively performing the actions during a particular moment. When a Rigger is engaging in the act of restraining their Rope Bunny, they assume the role of the Top in the scene, while their partner becomes the Rope Bottom.
As the Top, the Rigger has control over the choice of ties and how their partner is restrained. Therefore, in a rope bondage scene, the Rigger is indeed considered a Top and may be specifically referred to as the Rope Top.
Is A Rigger A Dominant?
No, a Rigger does not have to be a Dominant. There are numerous submissives who derive pleasure from tying up others or even engaging in self-bondage with rope.
Furthermore, there are scenarios where the Dominant partner may express a desire for their submissive to tie them up. In such cases, the Dominant assumes the role of the Rope Bottom, while the submissive becomes the Rope Top. However, despite being restrained, the Dominant remains in charge of the overall scene and retains their dominant role.
Are All Riggers Male?
No, similar to how Dominants can be of any gender, Riggers can also be male or female. Gender does not determine one’s ability to be a Rigger.
Conclusion
Discovering that you have a rigger kink can be an exhilarating realization! Whether you’re drawn to simple wrist restraints or the artistic beauty of rope bondage, it’s important to prioritize both enjoyment and safety in all your rope play. Mastering various knot styles may take years, but the journey of honing your skills is part of the excitement and satisfaction of this kink.
Rigger BDSM provides a thrilling entry point into the world of BDSM. Even without a dominant/submissive dynamic, incorporating restraints adds a level of kink to your sexual activities. You can explore bondage on your own or invite a partner to join you on this exciting journey. Perhaps you can initially explore being both the top and the bottom to determine which role resonates with you more.
If you aspire to become a rigger, it is crucial to invest time in self-education regarding proper rope bondage techniques and relevant anatomy. Doing your due diligence in learning the necessary skills will ensure a safe and enjoyable experience for both you and your partner.
Remember, being a rigger doesn’t imply rigidly adhering to specific gender roles or power dynamics. The key is open communication with your partner, fostering a safe and consensual space that allows for a mutually fulfilling bondage experience.
